On Sports

I don't care if the ref made a bogus call, have good sportsmanship and calm your hot mess down.


A lost game will not end the world, especially when the winning team is completely stacked with guys who are trying to get a reaction out of you. 


Side Note: If you don't want your girlfriend to say, "yeah you looked pretty pissed" or "the other team was playing really well" then just don't even talk about the game. Don't bring it up. Do you like it when we ask you about the outfit that makes us look fat/bloated/pregnant? No? Okay then we don't like hearing or talking about a game that your team was destroyed in. Because we might not know how to proceed with the conversation. 


Testosterone is STUPID sometimes. 

On Friendships

When friendships end you realize....

1. Both people need to participate. 
2. Person 2 needs to not completely ignore Person 1 when Person 1 calls/texts/emails and then get mad when Person 1 just decides it's not worth it anymore.
3. Person 2 shouldn't put all the blame on Person 1. 
4. Person 1 obviously feels like crap already, so why cut the wounds deeper and be completely insensitive?
5. If you needed to "tolerate" Person 1, you clearly were never really "best friends."
6. It took you until junior year of high school to even have a conversation with Person 1. And we went to school together since the third grade. Cool.

Not the best morning of my life. As you can probably tell. 

What sucks the most is that I did make an effort to make things better, did it matter? Nope. 

Hopefully there's some freshman who isn't dressed within the parameters of the dress code. I enjoy that much more than this. 

On Friendships

Took you long enough to notice that you weren't really in my life anymore. 


And you make me out to be the jerk? Cool beans, dude. 

On Clothing

Ladies, get it out of your head that leggings are pants.


Leggings paired with a dress that barely covers your ass makes you look like a whore. And it's basically a cry for a less than respectable (excuse for a) man to come and bed you.


We go to a Baptist school - dress accordingly.

On Friendships

Best friends are the people who never need an explanation for anything. They just know what's going on at all times. 


I used to have that. 


But I don't have that anymore, not really. 


When I try to talk to my best friend... It's almost like talking to a wall. That's about how responsive they are to whatever I say. 


So I'm just saying, if you want to share the good things that are going on in your life with someone, it's not because you're fishing for compliments. It's because things are going good, and your best friend should want to know about it. 


But if you don't want to know about it, what's the point in even being friends?


I'm officially done trying. It hurts too much to try and be your friend when you obviously don't even care. You clearly don't want me in your life, so why should I want you in mine?


That's right, I shouldn't want you in my life. Because all you do is drag me away from the things and people that make me happy. You're too stuck in the place you're at to see that there's more to life than partying and complaining about everything that sucks in your life. 


I'm pretty sure you're aware that I read tumblr, I'm not stupid. 


So when you post backhanded things on your blog, I get the message. 


This is me officially being done and saying, "goodbye." Because saying, "talk to you soon" implies that we might actually talk in the future. And we both know we won't, so let's stop pretending like we have anything in common anymore. 

On Photography

Not one human on this earth is perfect. 


We all have blemishes. Some people, have those blemishes in the form of acne. That doesn't make acne ugly. 


It's humility. And it reminds us we aren't perfect. 


Airbrushed skin is for people who want to ignore the beauty in imperfections.

On Dating

The way he treats his mother (and sister if he has one) is the way he'll treat you. Even the little things count. 

If he doesn't want his mother (or sister) spending any time with you (even if it's for a short while), it's probably because he doesn't want you seeing him treating her like crap. 

He might have a heart of gold, but if he treats mom and sister like they're scum on his shoes, down the line his true colors will emerge. And it'll happen when you least expect it.